1/. Hi there my name is Paula and I have what I consider a very worthwhile job in the community, the trouble is when I tell new friends what I do for a living I am greeted with either embarrasment from the girls or sly comments from the guys. You see I am a sex therapist, yeah yeah I have heard it all before, so lets get the comments out of the way first before I tell you about my job. You can’t just become a sex therapist you know, there are years of training, you not only have to know how the human body responds to sex you have to understand how the mental pressures of sexual problems effect a person. The first question people usually ask me is why did I choose this particular career and its quite simple really, I had my own hang-ups about sex and was sent to see a therapist and I was so impressed with how much he helped me (ohh you have got a dirty mind, it wasn’t at all hands on) to understand my own body and how much pleasure I could give and receive back during the sexual act that I decided to take it up as a career.
2/. Like I said it does give me some problems in my personal life from boyfriends as well as friends, when I start a new relationship and tell the guy what I do for a living it immediately puts pressure on his sexual performance. He starts to wonder is he doing it right, am I judging him or even the best one, is he big enough! this can come from a guy who has never questioned himself as to whether he is any good in bed or not. If I feel the relationship is worthwhile I will endeavour to put his mind at rest but as you can imagine that is like taking my work home, so often I go months as a single girl but please don’t feel sorry for me as I am the best person to give myself sexual pleasure. When I am in a mixed group and the subject comes up I can see the girls looking at me, its like I can read their minds, here I am a good looking girl and I spend my days talking about sex therefore I.must be extremely good in the sack. I immediately become a threat to them and the little sparks of jealousy start to fly when I talk to their boyfriends. The guys don’t help the matter because they just bring the conversation down to a really smutty level with their suggestive questions.
3/. I work from an office in my local hospital and it is usually a Doctor who will refer the patient or patients if it is a couple to me. The first meeting is usually a little difficult as of course I have to ask extremely personal questions and this usually leaves the guy squirming in his chair. I come up against a whole range of problems from the girl who has just had a baby and doesn’t feel sexy anymore, she hasn’t lost her baby weight and feels unattractive. I tell the husband/boyfriend to treat her to some really sexy lingerie, french knickers that will flow over her curvy bum all silk and lace, a matching well fitting underwired bra or basque so that her beautiful full breasts will look fantastic and the bra will give her a knockout cleavage, last but not least one of the deep suspender belts that fits the body from waist to hip, as she slips the soft fabric around her body and does up the little hooks she will revel in the way it pulls in her tummy and gives her back her pre-baby shape, a silky pair of stockings will complete the outfit and as she gently smoothes these over her legs she will begin to feel very good about herself. By the time she is dressed in the beautiful lingerie I tell them she will be feeling good and sexy about herself and then its up to them to take it from there, complimenting her and telling her how fucking horny she looks giving her back her confidence. It gives me a lot of professional pleasure when I take a phone call from the guys and they tell me they have just had the most fantastic sex since the baby was born, I smile to myself when they tell me they are just going into town to do some more shopping.
